NO MORE WEBSITE* Just the blog.

Hey everyone!

Sorry for the sudden disappearance of the website. My friend and I have decided that it would just be easier and cheaper to have everything on a blog instead of a website. She has been getting really busy and hasn’t been able to update the website in a while so we just took it down. Now I can just do everything on my own on here since this is so easy. It really is a wonderful website.

I am in the process of putting up the rules and other important information on the blog, as well as finding a good layout so you can easily get around so it’s kind of under construction right now.

Thanks for your patients!

Joann

Epiphany~ Jan 8, 11

So sorry I have not been on in such a long time. Life is changing and it has kept me quite busy. It’s a new year!

Love is hard and messy. All you can do is be completely honest and hope for the best. This can be said for any part of a relationship, romantic or friendly. When you are just starting to get to know someone you want to be yourself because obviously if you aren’t yourself and they like you then who do they like? Not you.

This goes for ending a relationship as well. Of course you care for the person and their feelings, but in the end you always need to do what’s best for you. If you just can’t stay in a relationship anymore for any reason then there is no reason to. No matter how hurt you think they are going to be, you just need to be as up front and honest as possible and they will respect that.

They will be sad and chances are, so will you, but you can send them your best wishes to find happiness. Let them love you and miss you and let them find their own peace with the situation. Everything takes time. Eventually you will both move on and it is best to not regret anything. There are no mistakes, only chances to become wiser. Treat everything as a learning experience and you will succeed.

Joann

Epiphany Aug. 2, 10

When someone is purposely bothering you because they are jealous of you or maybe they just plain don’t like you, ignore them. Don’t play their game. Be the bigger person and don’t fight back. You are only sinking down to their level if you do.

I know this is really old news and kind of corny but it’s very true.

If you just don’t acknowledge it they will see that you are not interested in making a fool out of yourself and therefore they should stop.

If they don’t stop then still, don’t do anything. They might learn something from you.

Epiphany July 29, 2010

Hello everyone!

I have been so lame lately and haven’t been on here. When the questions start getting thin, so do my posts. I have an epiphany for you though:

When you don’t want to get up and do anything, you just don’t have any motivation or drive, make a list. Make a list of all the things that you need to get done, all your goals that will benefit in the end and hang it on the wall. Hang it somewhere you will see it all the time. It will be a constant reminder of what you need to do.

Also, you can put next to each thing that you need to do, what will happen once you do it. How you are going to feel once you have finally finished what you need to do. Let’s say on your list you have, take the driver’s test. Next to that you can say, “I am going to be able to drive where ever I want once I finish. I’m a little closer to being on my own.” Or something like that.

New, new, new!!

There has been added, an “About” page to Just Ask Joann. It tells you what the site is all about. Along with a few updates making your maneuverability around the site easier.

Thanks to my lovely friend (the one who created the website) I am keeping everything up to date. I have been dormant for a long while now but I am BACK!

Thanks,
Joann

Feedback 5/22/09

Hello to all you readers that are hiding behind your screen.
I would like to point out that it really helps me (mentally and in keeping the site up) to know if people are reading my entries.
Please, please, please send me feedback that is NOT SPAM!!
I can not emphasize enough on how disappointed I get when people send me spam.
I do NOT get paid for this website, I have it purely for you so please do NOT send me spam and please let me know that you are reading.

Thank you,
Joann